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SAIC strongly encourages victims of sexual assault, domestic violence, dating violence, or stalking to seek medical assistance and to report incidents even if you are not seeking disciplinary action against the alleged offender. See below to learn how to identify prohibited behaviors and how you can seek help for yourself or someone you know.
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These are important steps to take right away after an assault:
- Get away from the person who assaulted you and to a safe place as fast as you can.
- Seek a friend or family member you trust. You also can call a crisis center or a hotline to talk with a counselor. One hotline is the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 800.656.HOPE (4673) or the Rape Crisis Hotline (888.293.2080). Feelings of shame, guilt, fear, and shock are normal.
- If you want to preserve evidence for a rape kit at the hospital, do not wash, comb, or clean any part of your body. Do not change clothes if possible, so the hospital staff can collect evidence. Do not touch or change anything at the scene of the assault in order not to disturb any evidence medical staff might be able to collect for the police. Such evidence may only be available for a short time.
- If you would like to seek medical help and support, go to your nearest hospital emergency room as soon as possible. You can be examined, treated for any injuries, and screened for possible sexually transmitted infections (STIs) or pregnancy. The doctor will collect evidence using a rape kit for fibers, hairs, saliva, semen, or clothing that the person who assaulted you may have left behind. This evidence may help the police and prosecutors find and charge the perpetrator or may help you if you seek an order of protection.
- Illinois state law requires hospitals to provide free treatment to sexual assault survivors.
While at the hospital:
- If you decide you want to file a police report, you or the hospital staff can call the police from the emergency room.
- If you want, ask the hospital staff to connect you with the local rape crisis center. The center staff can help you make choices about reporting the attack and getting help through counseling and support groups.
Adapted from Womenshealth.gov
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Domestic Violence or Dating Violence can happen to anyone of any race, age, sexual orientation, religion, or gender. It can happen to couples who are married, living together, or dating. Domestic violence or dating violence affects people of all socioeconomic backgrounds and education levels.
The following are not necessarily policy violations; whether there is a policy violation depends on the specific circumstances. However, these are some warning signs that you may be experiencing emotional or physical abuse if your partner has done or repeatedly does any of the following:
- Monitors what you’re doing all the time
- Unfairly accuses you of being unfaithful all the time
- Prevents or discourages you from seeing friends or family
- Prevents or discourages you from going to work or school
- Gets very angry during and after drinking alcohol or using drugs
- Controls how you spend your money
- Controls your use of needed medicines
- Decides things for you that you should be allowed to decide (like what to wear or eat)
- Humiliates you in front of others
- Destroys your property or things that you care about
- Threatens to hurt you, your children, or pets
- Hurts you (by hitting, beating, pushing, shoving, punching, slapping, kicking, or biting)
- Uses (or threatens to use) a weapon against you
- Forces you to have sex against your will
- Controls your birth control or insists that you get pregnant
- Blames you for his or her violent outbursts
- Threatens to harm himself or herself when upset with you
- Says things like, “If I can’t have you then no one can.”
If you think someone is abusing you, get help. Abuse can have serious physical and emotional effects. No one has the right to hurt you.
Adapted from Womenshealth.gov
How to Get Help
- You can contact the Chicago Police Department (911), Campus Security (312.899.1230), or the Domestic Violence Hotlines (national: 800.799.7233; Chicago/local: 877.863.6338) to get information on campus and local resources as well as your legal options. Please see Confidentiality, which explains the duties of various SAIC employees with respect to confidentiality.
- Identify your partner’s use and level of force so that you can assess the risk of physical danger to you and others before it occurs.
- If possible, have a phone accessible at all times and know what numbers to call for help. Know where the nearest public phone is located. Know the phone number to your local battered women’s shelter. If your safety is at risk, call the Chicago Police Department (911).
- Let trusted friends and neighbors know of your situation and develop a safety plan and visual signal for when you need help.
Adapted from the National Domestic Violence Hotline: thehotline.org
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Stalking is a crime. A stalker can be someone you know well or not at all. Most stalkers have dated or been involved with the people they stalk. The following are not necessarily policy violations; whether there is a policy violation depends on the specific circumstances. However, these are some warning signs that you may be experiencing stalking. Stalkers may:
- Repeatedly call you, including hang-ups or contact you repeatedly through electronic communication and social media
- Follow you and show up wherever you are
- Send unwanted gifts, letters, texts, or emails
- Damage your home, car, or other property
- Monitor your phone calls or computer use
- Use technology, like hidden cameras or global positioning systems (GPS), to track where you go
- Drive by or hang out at your home, school, or work
- Threaten to hurt you, your family, friends, or pets
- Find out about you by using public records or online search services, hiring investigators, going through your garbage, or contacting friends, family, neighbors, or coworkers
- Other actions that control, track, or frighten you
How to Get Help if You Are Being Stalked
Stalking is unpredictable and dangerous. No two stalking situations are alike. There are no guarantees that what works for one person will work for another, yet you can take steps to increase your safety.
- If your safety is at risk, call 911.
- Trust your instincts. Don’t downplay the danger. If you feel you are unsafe,you probably are.
- Take threats seriously.
- You can contact Campus Security, a crisis hotline, victim services agency, or a domestic violence or rape crisis program. They can help you devise a safety plan, give you information about local laws, refer you to other services, and weigh options such as seeking a protection order. (For more information see Resources). Please see the Confidentiality page, which explains the duties of various SAIC employees with respect to confidentiality.
- Develop a safety plan, including things like changing your routine, arranging a place to stay, and having a friend or relative go places with you. Also, decide in advance what to do if the stalker shows up at your home, work, school, or somewhere else. Tell people how they can help you.
- Don’t communicate with the stalker or respond to attempts to contact you.
- Keep evidence of the stalking. When the stalker follows you or contacts you, write down the time, date, and place. Keep emails, phone messages, letters, or notes. Photograph anything of yours the stalker damages and any injuries the stalker causes. Ask witnesses to write down what they saw.
- Contact the police, as Illinois has a stalking law (see applicable state laws). SAIC staff and local resources are available to assist should you choose to contact law enforcement.
- Consider getting a court order that tells the stalker to stay away from you.
- Tell your family, friends, roommates, coworkers, Campus Security, and the Office of Student Affairs about the stalking and seek their support.
Adapted from the National Center for Victims of Crime: victimsofcrime.org
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SAIC is a community, and we all have a responsibility to support each other. A “bystander” is someone other than the victim who is present when an act of Sexual Assault, Domestic Violence, Dating Violence, or Stalking is occurring, or when a situation is occurring in which a reasonable person feels as though some protective action is required to prevent Sexual Assault, Domestic Violence, Dating Violence, and/or Stalking. Bystanders, if active, can prevent harm or intervene before a situation gets worse. Examples of active bystander intervention include:
- Not leaving an overly intoxicated person in a bar/party alone
- Safely inserting yourself into a situation where an would-be offender may be close to acting
- Calling police when a potentially violent situation is unfolding
- Not leaving an unconscious person alone (alerting Campus Security or a staff member)
- Intervening when someone is being belittled, degraded, or emotionally abused (walking victim away from abuser, contacting an SAIC staff member for help)
If you become aware that a member of the SAIC community is the victim of Sexual Assault, Domestic Violence, Dating Violence, or Stalking, contact the Chicago Police Department (911), Campus Security, the Title IX Coordinator, or the Director of Student Conflict Resolution Additional resources are listed in Section VII, Resources of the Policy Prohibiting Sexual Assault, Domestic Violence, Dating Violence, and Stalking.
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SAIC is committed to providing support and resources that are broadly accessible to all SAIC community members.
Anyone who has experienced Sexual Assault, Domestic Violence, Dating Violence, and/or Stalking is urged to immediately seek help. Help includes seeking medical assistance, seeking confidential counseling or crisis response, filing a report with law enforcement, and/or making a report to SAIC.
Campus Security (or a designated SAIC staff member) will help any individual who has experienced Sexual Assault, Domestic Violence, Dating Violence, and/or Stalking, including providing transportation to the hospital, assisting with contacts to law enforcement, and offering information about SAIC’s resources. Although SAIC encourages all members of its community to report any incidents of Sexual Assault, Domestic Violence, Dating Violence, and/or Stalking to the police, the individual who experienced Sexual Assault, Domestic Violence, Dating Violence, and/or Stalking may choose not to make a report to the police.
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SAIC Campus Security
312.899.1230
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Northwestern Memorial Hospital Emergency Department
250 E. Erie St.
312.926.5188Chicago Police Department
1718 S. State St.
312.745.4290Chicago Police Emergency
Call 911Hospitals are required to provide a no-cost medical examination for a person who has experienced sexual assault.
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On-Campus Resources
Confidential Advisor (Students)
312.499.4271Health Services (Students)
312.499.4288
healthservices@saic.eduCounseling Services (Students)
312.499.4271
counselingservices@saic.eduEmployee Assistance Program (Faculty/Staff)
800.311.4327Off-Campus Resources
Northwestern Memorial Hospital Emergency Department
250 E. Erie St.
312.926.5188Center on Halsted
3656 N. Halsted St.
773.472.6469LGBTQ Violence Resource Line
773.871.2273City of Chicago Domestic Violence Helpline
877.863.6338Porchlight Counseling Services
Evanston, IL
773.750.7077KAN-WIN (multilingual advocacy)
773.583.1392
kanwin.orgRape Victim Advocates
180 N. Michigan Ave., suite 600
312.443.9603YWCA Metropolitan Chicago
1 N. LaSalle St., suite 1150
312.372.6600Additional Resources
SAIC Student Financial Services (financial assistance)
36 S. Wabash Ave., suite 1200
Chicago, IL 60603
312.629.6660 (extension 9 for Receptionist)Apna Ghar
4350 N. Broadway, 2nd Floor
Chicago, IL 60613
WebsiteChicago Rape Crisis Hotline
888.293.2080
WebsiteGreenlight Family Services (formerly Porchlight)
3636 S. Iron Street, Suite 240
Chicago, IL 60609
WebsiteIllinois Coalition Against Sexual Assault (ICASA)
100 N. 16th Street
Springfield, IL 62703
WebsiteKan-Win, Chicago and Northwest Suburbs
P.O. Box 25644
WebsiteMujeres Latinas en Accion
2124 W. 21st Place
Chicago, IL 60608
WebsiteResilience
180 N. Michigan Ave., Suite 600
Chicago, IL
WebsiteYWCA Chicago, Rape Crisis Hotline
888.293.2080
WebsiteZacharias Sexual Abuse Center, 24-Hour Support Line
847.972.7799
WebsiteLegal Assistance Foundation of Chicago
WebsiteNational Immigrant Justice Center
208 S. LaSalle St., suite 1300
312.660.1370
WebsiteCity of Chicago Office on Domestic Violence
24-Hour Hotline: 877.863.6338
A Safe Place
2710 17th St.
Zion, IL 60099
P: 847.731.7165
24-Hour Crisis Hotline: 847.249.4450
Between Friends
P: 800.603.4357
A Safe Haven
2750 West Roosevelt Road
Chicago, IL 60608
P: 773.435.8300
Family Rescue
P: 773.667.0715
24-Hour Crisis Line: 800.863.6338
Deborah's Place
2822 W. Jackson Blvd
Chicago, IL 60612
P: 773.772.5080
Margaret's Village
7315 South Yale Avenue
Chicago, IL 60621
P: 773.651.8372
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- 24-Hour Sarah’s Inn Domestic Violence Crisis Line: 708.386.4225
- 24-Hour Spanish Speaking Domestic Violence Hotline: 312.738.5358
- 24-Hour National Domestic Violence Hotline: 800.799.7233